How do you transform parish culture?
Since Sherry Weddell’s “Forming Intentional Disciples” gained national attention a lot time has been spent by parishes to figure out one question: How do we establish a culture of discipleship in our parish?
Culture is a tricky thing to transform. Afterall, culture doesn’t happen when you define it; it is defined by the way it is lived out. You can’t just say, “We’re a parish of disciples.” And boom! It happens. People aren’t that easy.
Consider the two questions:
Are you a disciple of Jesus? Do you want other people to become disciples too?
Do you love Jesus? Wouldn’t it be great if everyone in our parish loved Jesus this much?
They imply the same thing, but the second one evokes a deeper visceral response. It’s the difference between asking someone, “Are you married?” versus “Do you love your spouse?” One question is pure data, the other is intimate and taps into the well of desire that underlies the relationship.
So, how do transform culture? By sowing the seeds of desire for a new way of life. Our hearts are literally made for God’s love. Desire for discipleship is already there, but we need find a way for our parishioners to experience it.
Casting vision for your parish
If you want to lead your parishioners in any direction, you need to have a clear vision of where you’re going (vision) and why (mission).
Every parish has the same mission given by Jesus. It is the “why” behind our community.
Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything that I have commanded you. And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:18-20
Everything in the parish is supposed to be oriented toward accomplishing this mission. This is the reason for which we are made. This is the calling we have been baptized into. This means that grace is already there, working in their hearts. It also means they’re already equipped for the task. You just need to give them a roadmap for unlocking that reservior of grace. This roadmap is the vision you’re casting.
A good mission/vision statement gives clarity to decisions and compels action.
The Vision Statement Formula
Use this formula: We’re going to _______ by _______ because _______.
Example:
“We’re going to invite everyone in our parish boundaries to evangelizing events by the end of the year because everyone deserves to experience a life-changing relationship with Jesus.”
This vision statement does two things:
It tells them what to do.
Invite everyone to our parish’s evangelizing events.
By the end of the year.
It tells them why.
So that hearts and minds can be transformed by the love of Jesus.
Any parishioner that hears this statement can immediately act on in it. Any parishioner that acts on it will also be doing one very important thing: responding to the call of Christ. This small act is door crack into their very heart. The same heart that God made and is now calling . Who knows what God can do with an opening like that!
Over time as parishioners begin to respond to this vision, you may even find that you can define your parish culture as one of discipleship.
